Unveiling Truth

Well! Can we just walk up the street, church or school, grab anybody by the arm and proclaim to him/her. You're the one for me, the bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh? can we? Sure we can, but saying that's God's will for us is another ball game entirely. So, how do we pray, seek, find and confirm the will of God in marriage? Lam 3:27 It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth. But first, what are the challenges we often face: Not seeking at all:  James 4:2 ...ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. Some persons don't see the need to seek the face of God towards their life partner at all, they may feel character and charisma is enough test. This assumption is responsible for 95% of the break ups we experience today. Lately the number of break ups have truly skyrocketed and is over the roof, persons just hook up for physical likeness and dream of love, get married because they feel that'll keep their spouse committed, di

There's just one person created for you is a common fallacious statement we've heard over the years, I've defined " perfect will of God in marriage " as the most suitable life partner best suited to assist fulfill life's purpose. After Adam, in Gen 2:22-24 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man . It became man's sole responsibility to seek for himself a life partner with which there will both fulfill divine purpose. thus he states: Pro 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.  Gen 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they

When a child goes through the market and sees whatever he desires, he does not outrightly pluck it off. He runs off to inform his father on his latest discovery and his desire to possess it. The father then inspects the commodity if its suitable for his son's consumption or not; Is this really good for my son's consumption? Is it of any potential harm? Is this befitting for his person? Is this of any benefits to him? Are there better options? A young man/woman is like that child, (inexperienced, vulnerable and fragile) thus can be rather emotional(which is very deadly) than realistic in the choice for a life partner. Well, you could very much run off with whomever you please and start a family together, but take time to consider; Pro 24:6;15:22 For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellors there is safety. Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established. The pastor and elders t

We often resolve that marriage is never void of contention or argument. Well, that may have been your own opinion over the years, but if you'll read with an open mind. For I hope to in this article unravel a mystery: that it can be completely void of any of these things for as long as these spouses live. We might futher say "argument is bound to occur seeing we were not born together, didn't grow together, differ in moral trainings, cultures and background". Well, i agree we differ so much but differences is not enough reason for argument, as argument is only the absence of reasoning. I'll love to sight examples from a model marriage (Abraham and Sarah). But first let's straighten out the definitions of key terms: Marriage : is the relationship that exists between a husband and a wife (a man and a woman). Argument : is an exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one. Could also be termed in short "an angry disagreement&q