Who is to blame (decadence of the 21st century youth)

How can we resolve this situation, prosecute perpetrators and mend a thing when we know not who is to blame?

Many youths are screaming their throats out in silence with made up faces and glamorous attires, a clog of beautiful dresses to mask off the pain they feel deep down inside.

They go through situations, addictions and molestation but their voice just couldn't be heard because that's not what the society teaches us.

The pastors, imams (political and religious leaders) and parents are deafened by religion and refuses to understand that we must first overcome today's challenges before we can ever reach out for heaven as a destination.

We're fooled by appearances and faked up smiles, surrounded by men who seem to have no flaws leaving us no choice but to bottle ours up with an eternal hope of true liberation that may never come.

His(God) face shines upon us but we can't see it for the chosen few who must model this are masked with serious and angry faces for the wrongs of our past and the present walls (to hide our frail emotions) refusing to see that pleading tears behind our glossy filled lips, and the thumping heart behind our fast blossoming breasts.

But do we blame them?

The media has soon become our very source of inspiration, it drowns the screaming voices of our aged fathers when we're met with turns that could make or mar our promising lives, and were their experiences would have thought us, we're beclouded by the dreams of quick riches and a rest without strife.

For i recall when elders would gather the young and inspire them with tales of great morals, and children learn the lines of adages that'll guide their part through lives choices.

Who is to blame?

Who is to be blamed for this decadence creeping and swallowing up the virtues of religions/traditions. Or for our young ladies holdings babies of no defined fathers, or of the increase in suicidal attempts in our generation.

The whites colonized us and we in turn swallowed all their pustulation hook, line and sinker. This has left us with an underdeveloped country with dream-filled aspirations without adequate resources to actualise this American dream in a corrupt country as ours filled with inexperienced youths and ignorant leaders, Who only for their belly strive.

Ignorant because they wouldn't realise that in our successes there become saviours but encouraging the life of thuggery they only become slave masters, mayors who terrorised lives and killed dreams of their children. maybe not of the same blood so there may not care but you and i know that our fathers have failed us, greedy and become cancerous (not biological but political).
We're divided as one.

But who is to blame?